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Project 52 | Wake up to who you are

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 PHOTO CREDIT — That lovely piece of art above is by an artist that I am just crazy about – Lori Portka. I can’t believe I do not actually have any of her prints on my walls. I must change that. I do buy her calendar every year and have them prominent in my home. Check her out. 

“Waking up to who you are requires letting go of who you imagine yourself to be.” ~Alan Watts

This quote is so powerful for me and was instrumental in my own wake up call a few years ago when I realized I was playing an active role in helping someone else achieve their dreams and, as a result, putting myself last. Dead last.

We box ourselves in too much.

We accept too much of what is expected of us that we forget how to let our authentic selves rise up to the occasion.

We got this.

We do what everyone else thinks we should do.

We think what others think.

This week, I want to focus on shedding old, preconceived notions about ourselves and just walk into who we already are. There’s a great world inside of us just waiting to be cracked open and released — yes, even while we change sheets and fold laundry and while working a day job or a night job. Even while nursing in the middle of the night.

These dreams inside of us are waiting to see the light of day.

Who will you wake up to be?

What do you already know that is inside of you?

Photo Challenge: Take a photo of something in your home that really speaks to that person inside of you that you haven’t been able to set free — perhaps a piece of artwork that represents being an artist, or a pen if you want to write more or a bowl for pottery inspiration. Who are you? Wake up to that beautiful person.

FINAL WEEK — This is it! We’re one week away from our great, big and totally fun adventure. Join in!

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50 Ideas for a Slow Summer

50 Slow Summer Ideas Free Printable

50 Slow Summer Ideas Free Printable

The hardest part of summer, to me, is that there is so much to do and just a few short months to do it.

Unlike our friend Old Man Winter, where we tend to go inward and inside, summer presents the challenge of … oh goodness, there’s so much to do, we’ll never fit it all in.

So, in honor of Mission: Slow Summer, let’s not worry about fitting it all in.

Fit only the best parts in, only the parts that feel meaningful and joyful.

If you are stressing about not getting to “do” everything … ask yourself why?

We get caught up in the sexiness of being busy. That busy mentality invades our minds, our homes and our children’s worlds.

Last week, it was suggested that I create a list of Slow Summer ideas in honor of Mission: Slow Summer.

So, I’ve done that. Here are 50 Ideas for  a Slow Summer — and a FREE PRINTABLE!

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I invite you to download this list and add any ideas you feel are missing in the comments. You can also click the image to download as well.

At our house, though, these may or may not get done. In an effort to leave more space in our minds and our lives, we’re also leaving more space on our calendar. More white space. More time for nothing. More seeing what the children will come up with on their own without any distractions of rushing to this or that. And they always astound me with their ideas on our slowest slow days.

Honestly, our days will be pretty scheduled in a very loose, magical slow summer rhythm kind of way. Plenty of time for creating and exploring. Plenty of time for reading and watching clouds float by. Plenty of time for playing in the backyard. And plenty of time to do those things we feel are exactly what make summer magical. But, chores will still get done and we’ll still go to the library and the parks. We just won’t be pressuring ourselves to do any of it.

But these 50 things … they are essential to our summer days and I suspect we’ll fit them in without even thinking about it. And we certainly won’t schedule them in. We’ll let them unfold, naturally. Checking the list now and then to make sure we’re checking them off.

And if we don’t … that’s OK. It’s probably because we got wrapped up saving worms or something.

What is your one must-do this summer?

 

P.S — Don’t forget to sign up for The Playful Family Adventure! The final registration date is fast approaching.

P.S.S — You can get my sweet new e-book Lemonade & Fireflies: Inspiration for a Meaningful Summer right now.

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Project 52 | Make Space

Project 52 Make Space

“What you seek is seeking you.”
― Rumi

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This is Week 23 of {Project 52} Stay Awake. You are welcome to join in anytime during this year-long mindful living photo project. please upload your photos to our Project 52: Stay Awake Flickr group so we can see what an Awake life means for you. And, if you also use Instagram please use the hashtag #awakeproject13.

I make everything so complicated.

I wake up and my head is just spinning with all the things I want to happen.

I fill my to-do list to the brim because I feel a sense of urgency like no other.

Every minute available — which isn’t much — is about completing some task, reaching some goal, or making some dream a reality.

And then, as always, I wake up and realize life is not about the end results. It’s about the journey of getting there.

I was reminded of this concept this weekend after one of my girls ended up with lice and we went on a cleaning frenzy. Normally, that would ruin a weekend but instead, for us, it inspired us to finally rearrange our bedroom. I’m writing this post in my office … dreaming of our new space that feels so much more calm and inviting.

I am just imagining what that newly created space is going to do for our marriage and our lives, in general.

“Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”
~ Allen Saunders

This week’s Project 52: Stay Awake is about about making space for what we long for in life.

Fill the calendar with space. Leave room for dreams to unfold, for passions to light up and find their spark in the world.

If you want to create something, clear space for it.

If you want to play, create space for it.

If you want to dream, find a wide open space for it.

If you want more love, crack wide open for it.

Make space.

More and more space.

That’s it this week. Just leave space. Where would you like to make space in your life this week?

Speaking of space …

The Playful Family Adventure

Also this week, if playing and enjoying life more as a family is at the top of your Thinking Mama’s to-do list, this is your FINAL week to sign up for my very light and cheery summer e-course The Playful Family Adventure! Lots of playful ideas to get your mind spinning in new directions on how to turn your ordinary, boring routines into magical moments. Let’s play more the next couple of months!

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Summer Reads to Inspire a Slow Summer

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Slow Summer Reading List

It’s been five years since I’ve put my feet in the sand at the beach.

I practically grew up at the beach. We lived only two hours away.

I regret ever moving so far away from it. The ocean, the smell of salt water … it all slows me down and nourishes my soul.

This summer, we are returning! We couldn’t be more excited.

I don’t even care if it rains the whole week. OK, that’s a tiny lie …

I plan to unplug while I’m there.

Mission: Slow Summer begins digging our hands into the cool, wet sand and watching birds fly above us.

But, slow summers can happen anywhere and at any moment with a little inspiration. I’ve heard from many of you who are also on a slow summer mission of your own. So, I’ve gathered a few additional resources you can draw on as you plan.

Here is a list of Summer Reads to Inspire a Slow Summer because, yes, sinking into a fictional story is great but we all need reminders of what life could be like if we stopped cramming our schedules with too much stuff.

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Slow Family Living: 75 Simple Ways to Slow Down, Connect, and Create More Joy,” by Bernadette Noll (affiliate link). I was graciously gifted a copy of this book by the author, who I’ve gotten to know on Twitter, and I can’t recommend this book to you enough. Noll has written a book that I might have written had she not beat me to it! It has so many refreshing, original ideas that even I hadn’t heard of before. That’s says a lot.

Some of my favorite ideas that we’ve already started implementing: pantry dinners to prevent going to the store so much, a night in the park with friends, and this summer I’m going to start Happy You Day, where each child gets a special day of their own.

I love how this book incorporates actionable items — because I’m all about action — as well as good, solid parenting advice. It’s very clear that Noll gets this whole busy parenting world down.

There are just too many great ideas for me to list and I can see that I’ll be blogging about some of them in my Playful Family series soon. But, get your copy anyway and read it now. It compliments The Playful Family Adventure very well.

 

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Minimalist Parenting: Enjoy Modern Family Life by Doing Less,” by Christine Koh and Asha Dornfest (affiliate link) — This is the brand new book out this year and being hailed as the parenting book of the year by some. Any book that gets us thinking about doing less and buying less is important to me. This is on my list!

 

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The Field Guide to Now,” by Christina Rosalie (read it, love it and will read it again) (affiliate link). Rosalie is a phenomenal writer and storyteller. When I want to be inspired to write, this is the book I pick up.  But, more than that, she helps inspire me to slow down, too. Gorgeous book with some great action steps as well. Definitely worth having around the house to read at a moment’s notice.

 

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Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids,” by Kim John Payne (affiliate link) — I’ve written about this book before briefly but it really is a game changer in the world of slowing down and taking more control of your life as a busy family. Highly recommend this book for any family looking to slow life down.

 

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The Rhythm of Family: Discovering a Sense of Wonder through the Seasons, by Amanda Blake Soule and Stephen Soule (affiliate link) is probably now considered a classic but definitely worth reviewing time and time again. This book takes us on a journey of creating family connections and memories while also walking us through the cycles of the seasons in nature. It’s always the antidote to a rough week, in my opinion.

DISCLOSURE: By the way … all of the links in this post are affiliate links, which simply means that I get a very tiny percentage of any purchase you make if you click through to Amazon from this page. So, get click happy, in other words. 

What books are you reading this summer?

Photo Credit: gaelx

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